Why Subtweeting Sucks

Subtweeting is a rampant problem plaguing the internet. The unofficial definition is “Indirectly tweeting something about someone without mentioning their name. Even though their name is not mentioned, it is clear who the person tweeting is referring to.” If you have any form of social media, you have probably seen this happening on many social platforms, you may have even been a victim of it. It is what I consider the most common type of cyberbullying, and as much as I enjoy almost all forms of social media it has definitely changed how I feel about my life online.

In my opinion, when you have been subtweeted it is one of the lowest insults you can feel. For the past three or so years I have dealt with this problem on and off, and I think it is important to speak out about it. What it says is that the person who is doing it thinks that drama and making a scene is more important than respecting you. It says that the world should know about your problems, and it is more important to publicly shame you than it is to fix the issue. It brings the message that you are not worth it.

There is no justification for subtweeting. People say that they “just need to get it out.” That it is an “outlet” and you should not worry about it because “maybe it wasn’t about you”, but you always know that it is. When it is pointed and specific, you know. There is no justification for putting your personal drama online, especially when you have made no effort to fix the problem directly. It is so easily avoided, when tempted just ask yourself if you would want that same thing to be posted about you.

Subtweeting only causes more problems, it does not lead to solutions. If you are someone who is often tempted or guilty of subtweeting others please take a minute and think about what you are doing. Is it worth it? Will it make you feel better to publicly shame someone? Do you really want to stoop so low? There is not a single instance in which you would answer yes to any or all of these questions.

Plus, think about it. Your future employer is going to look at your online activity, how professional does it look if your feed is filled with drama? I encourage everyone to take a stand against this online negativity. If you feel like you are being talked about, address it. Stand up for yourself but do it respectfully, do not stoop to their level. It is not worth it and I can guarantee you will regret it when you think about what pain you caused. Most importantly realize that it is not your fault and the only thing you can do is speak up and be a positive light in the sea of negativity. Think before you post and you will lead a happier life.